2023 Clitoral Suckers - The Magical Device for Clitoral Pleasure
2023-07-20 08:55:37I believe many girls still have this dilemma. As their bodies mature, they have more vague sexual fantasies. What exactly is an orgasm like?
Some girls have already experienced sex, but still haven't felt the pleasure in it, and even doubt themselves...
Let me first explain to the ladies that, in fact, many women find pleasure in masturbation. A recent UK study (with 6400 female participants) shows 71% of women have masturbated before, and 57% of women had masturbated in the past year.
Ladies, pleasing yourself is not difficult at all.
Because we have it -
the clitoris
-with over 8000 nerves, it's naturally an organ that is very suitable for orgasms.
It shows that, stimulating the clitoris - the most direct and effective way to achieve orgasm. According to sexology researchers, 85% of women can achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation.
Next we get to the main topic. What tools and how to stimulate the clitoris, in order to experience the great harmony of life!
Clitoral suckers
The appearance of clitoral suckers can be sexy or cute, with different designs but all focused around one small opening - the sucking opening.
Looking at this small opening, doesn't it look like a little mouth that is just right to stick to the clitoris and lick?
Unlike vibrators and dildos that wrestle flesh-to-flesh, clitoral suckers have high-powered motors installed inside the sucking opening, which creates air pressure through membrane vibration, stimulating the clitoris, simulating the sucking sensation of an oral cavity, so they are called clitoral suckers.
How to use clitoral suckers
Toys are also tools. I want to teach some skills to ladies who may not know how to properly use toys.
Solo play techniques
Start with light kisses. Turn on low suction and put the sucking opening on your tongue tip. Imagine someone is teasing your tongue, sucking and slurping, as the overture to an erotic journey.
Whispering endearments. The ears are also one of women's sensitive spots. To feel your ears enveloped by hot, wet breath and a soft, slick tongue, apply lubricant to the clitoral sucker's opening and glide it back and forth from ear hollow to earlobe. The ticklish sensation spreads down from the sensitive ears, also arousing the clitoris with this sensual preamble.
Nipples. Also an area dense with nerve endings, easily aroused to excitement. First, glide the clitoral sucker around the nipple in circles, the fleeting pleasure comforting yet not enough, just tickling, making you crave more. When the little nub stands at attention, attach the clitoral sucker directly over it. Precise, high-intensity pleasure travels to deeper nerve endings.
Finally, the main event - the clitoris! Jamming it at maximum intensity directly onto the clitoris is absolutely the wrong move. The clitoris also needs gradual attentive care. First cruise around the less sensitive areas surrounding the vulva at low intensity. When the clitoris is tuned to the sucking rhythm, gently align the opening over the clitoris. Since it is air pulsation, don't create an airtight seal, leave a slight gap so the membrane can vibrate most effectively.
With the little mouth in place over the clitoris, let it work its magic as pleasure builds and climbs to an explosive, fireworks-like climax!
Partner play techniques
It takes two to tango, and toys are more fun with a partner. The pleasure payoff of two people using a toy may exceed 1+1>2. Boyfriend takes the front, toy takes the back - hold the toy to her clitoris during sex for internal and external double stimulation. No one would turn down trying that kind of fun!
Male and female genitals actually differentiate from the same cells, so you can suck his toy, and also use it to suck him. Want to see your boyfriend moan and groan? A clitoral sucker is a good choice!
How to choose a clitoral sucker that suits you
The main differences in sucking are:
Depth, diameter and suction intensity of the sucking opening. Deeper openings create more nuanced pleasure, shallow openings transmit vibration quicker for more intense sensation.
Larger diameter openings envelop the whole clitoris for easy start but less targeted stimulation. Smaller diameters hone in on clitoral hot spots for direct climax, so choose opening size based on your anatomy.
Suction intensity varies by toy design. Naturally sensitive women suit gentler suction strength, as the clitoris is a delicate organ and too much intensity causes pain. Seasoned players of course prefer the higher the intensity the better, to explore forced orgasm scenarios.
Sucking + vibrating, sucking + thrusting, sucking + aroma options. There are many quality toys with sucking only, and also great combo toys with sucking + insertable features, which I term "internal and external" types. Those with sexual experience may opt for the combo, but sucking-only is more suitable for clitoral play newbies.
Also consider charging method, battery life, silicone quality and waterproof rating when selecting a sucker. Magnetic and pinhole charging are common, both designed for waterplay, but magnetic has superior waterproofing. Choose soft, smooth silicone to avoid sucking discomfort.
Usage cautions
Thoroughly clean suckers before and after use. When rinsing the sucking opening under running water, don't point the stream directly at it - water force damages the membrane. Angle the stream to flow perpendicular over the opening, passing debris away from the sides.
Also, compared to vibrators and dildos, suckers tend to be louder due to air pulsation. Consider privacy and discretion when using, no one wants interruptions during happy time!
In conclusion
Sex and sex toys used to be demonized. In fact, sexual desire is no different than appetite. Women can explore their own bodies and create wonderful experiences.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, so start by facing your desires openly~