Vibrator Sex Toys Choosing Guide

Sexual wellness products are widely used in daily life, but due to their sensitive nature, people often feel embarrassed to discuss them with others. While there are many online discussions about these products, the information can be confusing and contradictory. This can make it difficult for people who are new to bullet vibrators and other types of vibrators to make a decision about which one to choose.

In general, any massage wand that contains a vibration motor for pleasure can be considered a vibrator，which have many type in wholesale sex toys. However, today we will only be discussing which have a certain length and can be inserted into the body for internal stimulation.

1.How Vibrating Wands Work

To understand how vibrating wands work, we first need to know that their operation principle is the same as that of bullet vibrators. Inside the vibrating wand, there is one or more motors with an eccentric wheel mounted on top. When the motor rotates, the eccentric wheel's center of mass is not on the motor's axis, causing the motor to be in a constantly unbalanced state, which generates vibration due to inertia.

By controlling the current, the speed and frequency of the vibrating motor can be adjusted to create different vibration effects, commonly known as vibration modes.

In fact, there are many products in daily life that have vibration functions, and their vibration principles are the same, such as old-fashioned mobile phones and body massagers.

2.Common Materials of Vibrators

The materials referred to here are the surface materials. Since these materials will directly contact the human body, they are very important. The most commonly used materials are TPE and silicone, sorted by softness. Of course, there are also materials such as metal and glass, but they have a much smaller audience, so we won't discuss them here.

TPE is most commonly used in Japanese-style vibrators because Japanese-style often have exaggerated shapes, and TPE's softness can create many exaggerated shapes. In addition, TPE is closest to the human body's muscles in terms of feel, making it more comfortable to use and more suitable for beginners. However, because it is too soft, the stimulation intensity may be slightly insufficient, so it made of TPE usually have designs such as hair and bumps to compensate for the lack of stimulation.

Silicone is more commonly used in European and American-style , and it is also safer, heat-resistant, and easy to disinfect. The slightly harder material is more suitable for intermediate and advanced players. Even if there is no special texture design, it made of this material will have a strong presence due to its hard surface feel and a certain size after insertion.

In terms of safety, silicone is safer, not because of TPE itself, but because the processing of TPE is riskier. TPE uses more additives during shaping, and some manufacturers use cheap and inferior additives to reduce costs, even starting from the raw materials. Therefore, be cautious when purchasing cheap TPE adult products.

In addition, avoid made of materials such as PVC, latex, heat-resistant rubber, various mixed rubbers, and fake silicone, although they are cheap, they are not safe to use.

3.Common Shapes

Different shapes have different ways of playing, and the most suitable one for woman of different ages, different levels, and different types of orgasms is also different. In terms of appearance, it can be roughly divided into five categories: straight, forked, G-spot, rolling bead, and realistic .

Straight

Although it is called a straight vibrator, it does not necessarily have to be completely straight. On the contrary, straight generally have a certain curvature to cater to the shape of the female vagina. Generally, that are basically just a line without other branches are called straight vibrators, or straight rods for short.

The reason for the curvature is that the female body structure makes the trajectory  in the body a curve. If it is completely straight, the wrist must be more bent to meet the trajectory of this curve, which is not only laborious but also easy to get tired. At the same time, with a certain curvature, it is also more likely to touch the G-spot.

For the first use, woman may have some resistance, just like the feeling of having a foreign object in the body for the first time. Therefore, for the first use, it is best to choose a smoother straight rod, which is easier to be accepted by the body. If you are greedy for stimulation and directly use a more intense toy, it may cast a shadow on your sexual journey. On the other hand, because the stimulation intensity of the straight rod is small, it is generally difficult to satisfy woman with some experience, and those who are not sensitive to the vagina will also have less feeling when using it.

  ( Strong Mini Vibrator ）

Forked

It is also known as multi-point vibrators or double-point vibrators, which have a short rod branching out at the lower part of the straight rod to stimulate the more sensitive clitoris. The fork is generally equipped with a vibration motor that can be controlled independently, which brings not only simple friction but also strong vibrations. After the main rod enters the body completely, it just touches the clitoris and forms a double-layered pleasure of inner and outer clamping.

Why are forked vibrators more popular? Because 80-90% of women cannot achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone, they need clitoral stimulation. There is a theoretical point in sexology that during piston movement, a woman's orgasm comes from the pulling of the muscles near the clitoris when the penis enters and exits, which stimulates the clitoris to induce orgasm. It can be seen that clitoral stimulation is important.

When choosing a forked vibrator, it is important to note that the fork should provide continuous and stable stimulation to the clitoris during the insertion and withdrawal process. In other words, the fork should always touch the clitoris. If the fork is too long, it is easy to shift, and if it is too short, it may not reach the clitoris, or even when using it, the main rod enters and the fork pokes, which affects the mood. In addition, the angle and size of the fork will also have the same effect. If the angle is too large, it will not touch the clitoris, and if the angle is too small, it will affect the insertion and withdrawal of the rod. However, the specific standard varies from person to person due to different body sizes.

（Rabbit Vibrator Massager)

G-Spot 

G-spot vibrators are designed specifically to stimulate the female G-spot. There is an obvious upward curve at the top, which, after entering the body, just touches the G-spot hidden in the vagina. The vibration frequency of motor can generally reach more than 10,000 times per minute, and woman can usually reach G-spot orgasm within one or two minutes. At this time, remember to pull out it in time, otherwise her most common action will be to push you away. When she is about to orgasm, being blocked by a vibrator is like having to break through an obstacle.

In addition to stimulating the G-spot, it also has another use. Because the head of the G-spot vibrator is larger and covers a larger area of the stimulation point, it is also quite useful for deep insertion and stimulation of the cervix. It can even be said that among all types of massage sticks, it is the best massage stick for cervical orgasm.

（3 Motors G-spot Vibrator）

Rolling Bead

The so-called rolling bead vibrator imitates this method and designs several rows of beads of different quantities on its body. The material of the beads is mostly metal, but medical plastic is also used. After starting, the beads rotate between clockwise and counterclockwise, stimulating the inner wall of the vagina in all directions.

However, it is difficult to say how effective the rolling bead vibrator is, and the effect is different for different women. But many people believe that this kind of stimulation is not very effective. Compared with insertion and withdrawal, the rolling speed and stimulation intensity of the beads are somewhat inadequate.

Realistic

Realistic vibrators refer to one that highly imitate the vibration of the male penis, including the glans, veins, and even the wrinkles of the testicles. Generally, it will choose a softer material to achieve the same flexibility and elasticity as real muscles. Some even have a skin-covered structure, and the glans can be turned out, which is very realistic. It also incorporate vibration motors and have a strong stimulating effect under the realistic appearance.

When using a realistic one, the piston feeling is the strongest. In terms of the pleasure of stimulation, it can be said that it is different from other . The realistic vibrator tends to provide a more realistic sense of satisfaction, while other mainly focus on stimulation. Which one is better still depends on personal preferences.

 (realistic dildo vibrator)

4. Design Details

Texture and Patterns

Except for the realistic , other types of vibrators have smooth and textured surfaces. Visually, textured surfaces with bumps and patterns may seem more stimulating, but in reality, the stimulation they provide may not be as intense as imagined. Additionally, there is a type with a "wolf tooth" design that looks more stimulating, but for most women, it may cause more pain than pleasure.

Waist Constriction

Since the shape of the vaginal canal is like a pocket, the muscles at the entrance are more developed and tend to contract when stimulated. However, the smooth muscles inside do not have much elasticity and do not contract during orgasm, but instead expand. Therefore, vibrators with slightly larger heads and a waist constriction design are more comfortable and provide a stronger filling sensation. They also work well with the contraction of the muscles at the entrance without causing discomfort.

Power Source

It generally have two types of power sources, dry batteries and rechargeable ones. There is not much difference in performance, but that use batteries are generally difficult to make completely waterproof, while rechargeable ones have better waterproofing. Currently, there are also wireless charging  on the market, which have better waterproofing and are more hygienic.

5. Common Functions

In addition to the basic vibration function, some also provide other functions. The following are some of the more common ones:

Vibration Modes

It have adjustable vibration frequencies, so they generally have preset vibration modes. Many emphasize the richness of their vibration modes in their advertising. However, in actual use, four or five vibration modes can satisfy most women because most people are not as sensitive as they imagine. One vibration mode worth mentioning is the "one-button orgasm" mode, which is usually a separate button on it. When pressed, the vibration intensity is immediately adjusted to the maximum, making it easy for women to reach the most exciting moment.

Circular Twisting

Some have a circular twisting function, also known as a swinging function. Theoretically, this function means that the top it will rotate 360° when used. However, in actual use, the swinging force of these is very small. Due to the constriction of the vaginal canal, there is only a slight twisting effect, but the stimulation of the vestibule is quite strong.

Forward and Backward Stretching

This function often appears with the circular twisting function. As the name suggests, the vibrator body will stretch forward and backward to a certain extent during use. In reality, to achieve a strong stretching effect, a strong motor power is required. Generally, vibrators that use batteries or rechargeable ones have limited stretching amplitude and the effect is not ideal. There is a large machine that uses AC power, commonly known as a "cannon machine," which has a powerful stretching function.

(Rose Vibrator with Licking & Thrusting)

Electric Shock Pulse

To achieve an electric shock effect, two metal electrodes are usually set on the vibrator. If you touch them with your hand, a slight electric current will be generated, but the feeling is not obvious. However, if inserted into the body, due to the higher sensitivity of the vaginal canal, there will be a feeling of flesh jumping. These generally control the current at 5-10mA, which will not kill people, but whether they have any harm to the body is hard to say.

Heating

Although it is convenient to heat up, it with heating function is more intimate, especially when using larger one in winter. The principle of heating is simple. Generally, a spiral groove is set on the outside of the vibrator body, and the heating wire is installed in the groove. Finally, soft materials such as silicone are covered on the surface of the main body. For safety, a thermistor is set on the inner wall of the vibrator body to monitor temperature changes.

Bluetooth Control

Some have a Bluetooth module inside, which can be connected to a mobile phone through Bluetooth and controlled by an app on the phone. It is convenient and can satisfy some people's small interests. However, due to the short effective distance of Bluetooth, the phone cannot be too far away during operation. Moreover, the penetration ability of Bluetooth is weak, so the effect may not be ideal, mainly depending on the quality of the vibrator.

Remote Control

Remote control means that it can be connected to the Internet through wireless network and then remotely controlled by binding with an app on the phone. Compared with Bluetooth, the control distance is farther, and as long as there is an Internet connection, remote control can be achieved regardless of the location. Generally, these types of toys are more for satisfying the needs of long-distance couples.

6. How to Choose ?

First, consider the price. Buying a branded one from a reputable platform will have quality assurance, and the price is generally higher. Do not buy too cheap, as the materials used may contain harmful substances that can harm your health.

Second, determine the shape. The previous section introduced the common shapes that can be inserted into the body. Based on the characteristics of different shapes, you may have a target in mind.

Third, consider the size. Size is a very important factor for the user experience . If it is too small, there may be no feeling, and if it is too large, it may be uncomfortable. For most vibrators on the market, the length of the part that can be inserted into the body is generally between 12-18 cm, and the diameter is between 2.5-5 cm.

There is no fixed formula for determining the most suitable size for oneself, only a general suggestion. If you are not experienced, start with a smaller size, with a length of about 10 cm and a diameter of about 3 cm, which is a universally applicable choice. If you have more experience and the vaginal canal is more elastic, you can choose a diameter of about 4 cm. If you have a lot of experience or have a relaxed vaginal canal and have stronger requirements for size, you can choose a larger size of.

7. How to use ?

For beginners using a vibrator, it is best to use disinfectant wipes and lubricants to enhance the experience. If you don't feel much sensation at first, don't immediately dismiss its effectiveness. Perhaps the posture or method of use is incorrect. Keep trying and you will eventually have a different experience. Generally, most can be used by following these steps:

First, press the sensitive area. Common sensitive areas include the nipples, pubic area, labia, clitoris, G-spot, anus, and other areas. When using, start with the tip, which is the strongest vibration point, on the sensitive area mentioned above. At the beginning, you can press a certain area without moving, allowing the woman to enjoy the continuous stimulation of the vibration. While pressing, you can adjust different vibration modes or fix a certain vibration mode.

Then, draw circles. After pressing the sensitive area for a period of time, the woman may become accustomed to the stimulation . At this time, use it to draw circles on the sensitive area to increase the stimulation effect. At the same time, you can also change the vibration mode.

Pay attention to changing the frequency of stimulation. After pressing and "drawing circles," the man can temporarily lift it, wait for 1 or 2 seconds, and then put it back down to continue pressing or "drawing circles," giving the woman a feeling of on-and-off stimulation. When performing this kind of stimulation, it is best not to change the frequency and adjust it to the maximum intensity.

After teasing the woman's sensitive area for a while, hold it and roam her entire body, starting from the chest to the private area, then moving to the back. This method provides more comprehensive stimulation for the woman. It is recommended to use the maximum intensity of vibration for roaming.

When the partner's private area secretes love fluid and becomes moist, slowly insert it to avoid discomfort such as dryness and pain. If there is still some dryness, lubricant can be used. If you are concerned about hygiene, you can use a condom on the vibrator. In fact, at this point, both men and women can officially "start the sex war," and the vibrator's task is temporarily over.